Flirting Body Language - Hypnotic World Psychology
Flirting Body Language
Building rapport with the person we are talking to is something
we often naturally do, however this is a skill that we can improve upon, once
we become consciously aware of how to do this.
If you watch two people deep in conversation, you will notice
how, after a while, they begin to shift their position, breathing, voice tonality
or speed, to match the person they're talking to.
This is because we send out unconscious signals in order to
gain the other's approval. Everybody wants to be liked, no matter if they tell
you otherwise. Some people are so bad at getting others to like them that they
develop a 'couldn't care less' attitude as a defense mechanism - but deep inside
they still care. These people clearly lack communication skills, even if they
appear on the outside to successfully interact with others.
To an outsider, such a person may appear confident and self
assured - but on the inside both they and their audience know that they're putting
on an appearance because it's easier than being confrontational.
People like People who are like Themselves
We are all drawn towards those who are like ourselves in some
way, which is why so many people join clubs or other organizations to in order
to meet others with similar interests.
If you wish to improve your communication skills then you
will need to discover what you have in common with someone in order to share
your ideas and possibly form a lasting friendship.
To reach this stage you will need to engage people in conversation
by building up a rapport. This could start with a simple smile and acknowledgement
of the other person's presence, leading on to small talk with those you don't
yet know.