This type of love can also be called mystical love, or just pure love. It is
much rarer than the other two types of love. Whereas the love mode of narcissism
is directed to oneself, and the love mode of jealousy is directed to another
person, love by itself has no object. It is just a flux, just a flow of enchanting
emotion to everything.
Usually the only time that a person feels such love for any length of time
is when the person falls in love with someone. Then the world transforms magically
into a wonderland (really the person has fallen in love with the world, rather
than with the other person) ; however, soon the magic fades, the mood vanishes
and is replaced by the love mode of jealousy – now love is restricted to the
When pure love is my current mood, I have the same value as everyone else,
so differences in abilities or in character development are unimportant. Uniformity
is the rule (this should be separated from conformity, which is characteristic
of the self-pity mode of jealousy).
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