In the eyes of vanity, life is matter-of-fact, neither joyful nor dramatic.
Therefore I have to give myself importance, either physically by the way that
I dress or socially by my status or romantically by my destiny, or by any other
way. I desire fame, or to be a leader. I go my own way in life ; I am not a
follower of anyone or any fashion. I prefer new horizons rather than traditional
ones. Unfortunately I am sensitive to ridicule.
The three kinds of vanity all centre on the concept of importance.
Vanity (as a mode of narcissism) implies the quality of life is important.
Vanity (as a mode of pride) implies my world is important.