Body language question - I am a female funeral director and of course I need to look immaculate on the day of a funeral. However when I come across someone I know who is female they either brush my collar (as if to remove fluff) or fix my tie (as if it was crooked) or pick a loose hair off my coat. Males have never done this. I am aware it must be some sort of "power thing" but can't put my finger on it.